You have my sympathy. When my DH passed away 16 years ago in my arms, I waited till family arrived before the funeral director came. One of my best friends made me sit between her and another friend on the sofa when they transported the body. It was unbelievably painful for me to have them take his body out of our home. I never heard of these 'passage' quilts before, but I believe they must help. I think I will make some.