I want my quilts to be used but not I'll used, if that makes sense. If I saw one on the floor for the dog to use, or under the car to catch oil drips, I would consider that I'll used and they wouldn't get another and yes, that would hurt my feelings.
If they used it for a child's indoor fort, going on a picnic, in the bed of a truck for the fireworks display, I would be pleased that they are using it.