A gift is just that. A gift. I do not loan my gifts. once they are gifted they are out of my hands. I have no say in who does what with them. I consider them like my children. I raised then with love. Sent them out into the world with love. They have all grown and given love back to me and the world around them. Some times I want to say something when I see some of the things they do, LOL but I did my best niot to, they are all grown up living there lives as they see fit. So my quilts have a life of there own to thrive or fale, So far the people that have entered into the lives of my kids and quilts have for the most part ben good to and for them.