I've made quilts for all my brother's and sister's grandchildren.... and I've never seen how they were used. I don't even think about it..... I enjoyed making them. My nieces and nephews now know that there will be a quilt coming when they have an addition to the family and they seem to be excited about it. That's good enough for me.
I do see the quilts I've made for my granddaughter and her little one. She's saving the baby's quilt for an heirloom but the quilt I made her for a wedding gift is used everyday. So, what each person does with the beautiful quilt you make is their choice. After all, it's their quilt now. You gave it away with love..... now move on to the next one.