Originally Posted by
TanyaL
But do you really not care when you find out that the person has in turn given your quilt away to someone else? Maybe Goodwill, maybe a friend or a stranger? When they so obviously didn't want the quilt? That has made me put a person on a "gift card only" list.
Yes, I really do not care. I have been known to give away things I treasure...why would I not assume the recipient of a quilt I gifted was doing the same, giving away something she treasured, something important to her, something she wanted to bring pleasure to that recipient? The gift is in the giving and it is never lessened by what subsequently happens to the item changing hands.