Maybe I'm an odd duck (well, actually... no "maybe" about it... LOL!) but I kind of "pre-qualify" people before I make a quilt for them. If I get the vibe that they're not into quilts or won't really appreciate it, I give them something else. I learned this lesson the hard way after I spent considerable $$$ & time on a wool bargello pillow for my ex-MIL & she used it on their fishing boat. Yeah. So now I'm more discerning.