I was hurt
My mother was a quilter and made many by hand. I displayed most of them in a rotation. When she lived in an assisted living facility I made her a bed runner using the colors in a picture of wild lupines that was hanging over her bed and was given to her by my sister. I also bought a very expensive matelase white bed spread and shams. Before I left her room she had gone out into the hall waiting for people to invite in to see her "new look". One month later she called me to say that she took everything off her bed, that I could pick them up, "it's not what I like". I now have a wonderful new look in one of the cabin bedrooms. I guess it was a win win situation.