Several years ago, I made a Christmas quilt for the family of our first exchange student. When they sent pictures of their celebration, my quilt was on the back of their couch, backwards. When she went home, I made her a log cabin quilt and sent her parents a flying geese quilt. They took a picture of the quilt, again backwards on their bed. My feelings is they are using my quilts that I gifted them, for allowing their daughter to travel to the USA from Germany. The quilts are their's to use and how they use them is OK with me.