Maybe we need to really look at who we want to give the quilt to and IF they will appreciate it respectfully. Honestly, once I give any gift, I don't "check up" on the gift to make sure it is treated in a respectful manner. BUT I don't give quilts either. Whatever the recipient wants to do with the gift is their choice. Regifted if you want to! I've done that myself.....its better that someone who wants it and will use it ...has it. my 2 cents.
sandy