Yes, it really hurts when you get overlooked or not even thought of. When my dad passed away, mom gave his friends and other relatives things of his and just skipped over some of us "kids". Mom had her own world that's for sure, I was raised by my grandmother as my sister too. So I guess sis and I understand why we were overlooked but it's still hard to try and understand. At least I have good memories of dad. Can't change the past but you can move forward to a brighter day. Hugs to you.