low profile woman, here. if it's germane to the conversation, i'll offer it up, but i have other internet presences, and anybody who was trying to track me could do it, just one step more easily with this info. there are those of the group who have been stalked, harassed, or have reasons to not let it show. yes, it's a very nice group, here--but sometimes the not so nice drop by, or harbor, quietly. some of us have had bad experiences--not with this great bunch, but in general. if you need to know, i''ll tell you. but to only satisfy curiosity? nope.
so, as has been said, if you don't agree, then i'll understand. but, i remain, anonymously yours...