I gave a quilt as a wedding gift - no thank you. months later, I saw the husband and asked about the quilt. His response?
"The cat likes it".....I was crushed.
Gave another one to my stepson when he got remarried. They loved it !! Then as my brother-in-law's funeral (of all places), he asked me if I used cheap Walmart batting since it wasn't warm. Again -- crushed !!
No more wedding gifts except for my son if and when he gets married. He and my hubby seemed to be the only ones who can appreciate them.