Sorry you are crying. Been there done that. It is the Christmas season. Not a time for frustrations. It is a time for love and peace and family coming together. Maybe you can put the quilt aside and think about it another time. If you really want to make her something how about a pretty shawl to keep the chill away. Just for now and once the holiday is over you will not be rushed and can take the time redoing the quilt for another occasion. Wishing you Gods Blessing.