Your throw is beautiful. Your story made me cry. The only present she gets is from you. My 90 year old father is in a memory care unit of an assisted living place - fancy name for a locked unit. His dimenia is so bad, he has to be locked in the unit. Fortunately, I have a daughter, her son, and a family friend who remember my father with gifts, along with myself. I also have a brother, but that's a whole different story. I'm happy your mother has you.