Know how you gals feel............. I too have had a bad experience with the swaps. That is one reason I have not entered many on the swaps.... kind of put a bad taste in your mouth..... when you give 100% + and don't even get 50% back. There are always those in life who are looking for something for nothing and take the fun out of life.
Well not that I have vented maybe I should give the swaps another chance....... as I do feel there are many more good things in life then negative things.