i think this is a good place to make the notation that brat and i do not sing in the shower together, that is to say, when we're in the shower we sing, but not when we're in the shower together, um , i mean, we don't sing together when we're in the shower. but she sings and then i sing, when we're in the all-together, but not together, in the shower, not .... oh, heck. we just like to sing.