Just be you & do what makes you happy. I was one that always tried to please everyone else. I was never happy myself. Then decided to do what made me happy. If others didn't like it, then that was their problem not mine. When I teach someone to quilt or whatever, I always tell them I do it this way, but if you find a better way that works for you then go for it. Everyone is different & you have to choose for yourself & not let someone else choose how you should be. As long as you are not hurting anyone, then be you. I never downgrade anyone that thinks or dose things different than I do & I won't allow them to down grade me for how I am. Everyone is not made from the same mold. Blessings on being yourself.