Well, here's my sad story. The seller agreed to pick up but started complaining immediately about schedule times. I couldn't pin her down to a convenient time or place. I even suggested the parking lot of the post office where she would have to take it to ship.
We also discussed shipping prices. I went on USPS site and calculated the shipping prices for the weight and dimensions (even insurance for the $14.99). It came to around $66.00 if I went to the PO and $35.00 if I ordered the shipping online.
This really set the seller off. She offered to cancel the order which I gracefully accepted . . . because she scared me :-(