When I was up north for my granddaughters graduation, there was a family conflict going on and wonderment about attending the graduation. I told one of the parties that everyone has some kind of regret but don't let this be one of them because two people who are not related don't get along. Luckily, the most important people the graduate cherished the most were there with their unconditional love. No matter how much one gets upset with a loved one the last comment should always be " I love you and nothing else is more important than that." I don't agree with many things many others say, I have very few grey areas. What's right is right and what's wrong is wrong. I love all my family and I tell them all the time. I end every conversation with "I love you bye." That I will never have to regret saying. I love saying it to them. I also tell my grandchildren's mothers "Thank you and I love you for what you've given me. I may not like some of the things they do but I love them for giving me the grands.