Don't think that was in the vows!! My pet peeve is the "Where are my glasses?" question several times a day...my response is always the same..."I don't know...I wear mine...why don't you wear yours?" His response..."I just need them to see some things" huh?? Say what???? Then we go through the where did you have them last, what were you doing...etc...I think I'll get him those holders that go around his neck!!