I am the messy one, and I have to tell you, it's my home, too and if I want to put my pants on the chair, I'm going to do it. I can't imagine being an adult, and having to listen to someone tell me how to keep my clothes, or fridge or whatever, in my own home. If someone's not happy with the state of things, then they can clean it up. And people complain about QUILT POLICE!!!