well, how about when you try your best to figure out what to get for somebody that doesn't really seem to need anything and after opening it, they TELL you, right there, that they don't use things like that!
(FIL, one year at Christmas :oops:...started buying a gift certificate.)
It's all,...- um, let me fix that...many times, it is all a matter of perspective...and there ARE those times, you have to wonder what their perspective is! :roll: