Update: thank you all again for the thoughtful replies. I'm sincerely touched by the very helpful direction you have given me. I have found the books you recommended and they are on the way. I have studied the pictures posted and I am blown away by their beauty. I am off to Lowes today for the brilliant paint chip idea. And I do hear you when you say that it is for them(not me) and to consider what their likes are. I'm trying to stretch and grow in my quilting style. Thanks for the help and encouragement.
S.