Enjoy the goodies while you have them, ladies. I used to get wonderful treatment from my hubby of 40 years, and I think it totally spoiled me for any other male on the face of the earth. Mine was kind, thoughtful, never forgot a special day, and most of all thought that I was a direct gift to him...and treated me as if i were. Do I miss him? Forever! He was another one who sent songs and cards and funny little gifts...but the most important thing he did was to let not only me, but our whole family, know that he loved us....each day. If you have one like that, treasure him and love him...they are a rare breed, it seems.