It depends on the situation. We had a Heritage member who was passing and a person in our Community Quilts gave her a quilt she had made from donated fabrics. It was adored by this lady who had only a few weeks to live. That was justified. Our Guild has Community Quilts but, they sometimes have to scrounge for fabric at the free table. I say, those quilts can go to wherever they are needed. Now giving one to your husband from fabrics purchased by the Guild, no way. As for what the donation sites do with the quilts after they are donated. It's a donation, you can't do a thing about who it goes to.