Bneighbor, at the end of the day, computers are just another specialization.
You've chosen quilting and other specializations.
What I used to tell the geeks (who would exclaim about all the things the clients couldn't do on a computer) that I worked with is: So the client can't fix their own computer, so what? If they could, you wouldn't have a job. Can you do their job? (That answer was more than often "No".)
At the end of the day, the computer should be a tool that does what you ask it. It's more capable than a toaster, but it's basically a toaster. You should be able to turn it on ((put the bread in), tell it what you want to do (push the lever down), and get the result you were looking for (toast!)