I didn't read all the posts, but I say go. Most quilters are kind, generous, and lots of fun. I went to my first official retreat in October and I loved it. I did have a couple of friends go with me, but i would go by myself now that I know how fun it is. And take lots of projects- even if you don't think you need that many. I made 2 lap sized quilt tops and 2 baby sized tops in a few days. I tried to have most everything cut before I went so I could just sew and visit. I hope that you go and have a wonderful time. You may even meet a new best friend!