I just today heard of a d4p, our local fabric shop owner told my sister about it. I have not saw this before but maybe it would be what you are looking for. I know it may be hard but if your daughter picked this out,please think about honoring her wishes even if it is for you. Someday she may look back and think Mon did this, how much She loved my gift and about how much joy both received from this gift. ! And honestly isnt that worth everything to us as Moms.(its all about joy and love)