Oh Rina, I feel your pain! Because of just this, I made really quick, easy, fun quilts for my grand daughter out of Joann fabris (on sale). It's better for them to use & love it to death than for it to sit in a closet for the moths to eat.
As upsetting as it may be, you know he truely loves it if he's take'n it everywhere & do'n everything with it!