yes i guess i will know better next time..am very hurt. hubby talked to son about it..so don't know what is to happen..i will make 2 more if i need too. just the idea..have made one quilt for son/dil and wont make another..dil is very controling..when they were first married she was really nice and all but she makes the rules and told me what she says goes..so we keep it cool for son and grandkids but wont trust her..have to be careful of everything now..too bad..she is like a different person now and even son has made that comment.