Thanks for all the suggestions! So far I've been able to line up a furniture dolly and a wonderful friend and her strong husband and I'll call the dealer on Monday. HQ suggested I have the dealer send someone, but they are pretty far away. I also have a local furniture store where I've purchased from before that has a dock and might be willing to accept delivery and then deliver to me on their smaller truck. I'm definitely making progress!
Thanks!
And Kathy (Quilting Vagabond) that is my situation also. I could make room for a longarm by emptying my living room, but that's not really what I want to do, so this is a great solution. I too am comfortable with FMQ on my home machine so I'm just looking for more space and consistency in stitches. I did get the optional stitch regulator and have recently seen tools that make it even easier to use.
Good luck to you!