Respect is my advice and leave what happens between 2 of u just a secret. Love and love as the partner is. Do not try to change. U give options and easy ways to make things (right in your opinion) but don't say do this this and not this.
My mother asked a 28y man of her relative why don't u married till now?
(Bec i never met some one i love) he said
(Don't find some one u love her, find some one she loves you)she replied.
When i remember new things i will add . It's a good thing to speak about