Originally Posted by diannemc
Why is it when it comes to fabric I lose all cense of judgement...I went shopping with my DDs this morning and the last thing DH said was do not use the credit card for anything!..Well I DID!!! I couldn't help myself...I wanted the fabric so bad...I knew if I wrote a check he would see but the credit card he wouldn't see till next month!!! I am so horrible...I only get to the fabric shop once every 3 or 4 months and just couldn't miss this chance..I will tell him but just not now..am I a bad person!!I do have an addiction....
You are NOT a bad person, and I know exactly how you feel, isn't it horrible these days, and at my age, I don't know how old you are, but I kind of get ummm a little resentful when I am asked what I used the debit card for, especially if the question is "now where is 3301 1st street where I saw a purchase for $13.12?" Now that gets me rattled so I have gotten so I don't TELL what or where I did. So no YOU ARE NOT a bad person, scared maybe, bad no!! Fabric spending, well we'll spend it somewhere won't we? Why not fabric, is that NOT better than a gambler, and believe me I was married to one, who cleaned not only my clock, but my SSDI every month too. So he is now being chased by the Devil in my humble opinion because I doubt God would put up with him.....He left the planet in a hurry with a whole lot of debt, both commercially and spiritually. You know what I mean? So don't be beating yourself up so bad, it's Christmas Season time, the season of perpetual hope, I think. OK I hope. Give yourself a piece of peacefulness....at least at this time of year.
Conz