Jean: This is my third grandchild but the first for my son. To say the least, my children are spaced. My oldest was 17 when my second was born and the third was 20 month later. The first two grandchildren are in their late teens so its been a long time since our family had any babies. Its early times yet so don't know the sex. Not sure if the parents will keep it a secret or not, may have to make a unisex. I so agree, grandchildren are the reward for putting up with their parents through their teen years. There sure is a reason you need to be young to be a parent.