I tell everyone I only sew for those I want to and don't know I'm making them something. So it's a surprise. I used to be a hairdresser and a few relatives would stop by my folks house with hair in curlers and expect me to do their hair for nothing. Told one relative who arrived shortly after I did, "I'm sorry you went to all that trouble. I'm off work." She wanted to know what my folks were going to do about it. I was 35 years old at the time. Once again I was the rebel of the family. Oh well! Her family still talks about it and she's been gone for 20+ years.