I have never had this breed but had two Westies in my life time. The male I got as a puppy but Tess I rescued from the pound. It was obvious when I brought her home so had been abused. It took about 3 months when she finally stopped panicking when I entered the bedroom. She never wanted any love or affection (which broke my heart) but if I had any human food in my hands, I was her best friends. Just try to do your best.