When I married DH, he had three single adult children. They have all since married. I made a quilt to celebrate each marriage and we paid for the wedding for his daughter and the rehearsal dinners for his sons. In addition, we gave each of them a fully paid week at a time share (our time share allows the points to be used anywhere in the world.) One spent his honeymoon in Andorra with our gift and the other have yet to use the gift, but they know it is available whenever they decide to request it.