I have to say that ghostrider said it well...
I honestly look for the design I like 1st. I pre wash everything, yes even fqs. I wash them by hand. I have lots of sensitivities due to Lupus, and many things including sizing can get me in a flare.
And I agree everyone is different in what we like. If we all liked the same thing what a dull world it would be...
Regards,
Kif