I'm inclined to be too generous with my quilt supplies. Have loaned quilt books and never got them back or even a mention that I would get them back.
I have a favorite pair of scissors that were a gift and in sewing group someone just picked them up and used them. It took several months to get themback. Yep, they were marked. quilt books seldom come back. So, I'm reluctant to take or use my best things to quilt group.
i rarely borrow, maybe in our quilt workshops for a moment.