I don't go to destination weddings. If one chooses to have their ceremony on a beach or wherever , they should expect lessattendees, which, I believe is their intent anyway. The sister of a good friend of mine had a destination wedding. Her only sister could not attend because the school year had just started. (she is a teacher) to this day, my friend is still sad that she could not attend her only sisters' wedding. I thought it was very selfish on the brides' part. But, one makes choices and some have consequences.
sandy