I know times are a changing, but I think it is down right rude to ask for money for a wedding gift. What happened to gifting someone without them telling you what they want. I have a great niece that got married a couple of years ago and had lived with her husband to be for 3 or 4 years b4 they decided to get married and had a child together. I think you have already established a home and pretty much have everything that you need to set up housekeeping since you already did it. And I will not contribute to anyones honeymoon fund. Just me, don't jump on me, I just think it is wrong and this only my feelings, not trying to push them off on anyone else.