I'm going to comment here on a related topic. Thank you notes. I have attended a wedding, gifted a baby quilt and sent two graduation gifts. I haven't received a thank you note for any of these. I do know the baby quilt was received, but the others I have no way of knowing as they were gift cards or gifts sent from their registries. There's really no way of dealing with this because I don't want to withhold gifts from others because of someone else's bad manners. It's just very annoying. If the baby quilt recipient has another baby I hope she is able to share the quilt because she's not getting another. There, rant over!!