You could use a layer of the Bonsal and a layer of Insulbrite along with the outer fabric and liner. The Bonsal would give it enough structure to stand tall, but is easily sewn and quilted through.
You might include wine glasses and either some glass charms or coasters. I made these for one of my husband's cousins. The different colors identify whose glass is whose. The base of the stem slips between the layers
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