If you have several patterns that you really like and just can't choose between them, try writing the names on slips of paper and drawing one from a container. You will know by the way you feel when you read the name if it is the right one. A lift of happiness in your heart will tell you yes!! A tiny blip of disappointment will tell you no, not that one.
If it's no, set that slip aside and draw again. Keep drawing till you feel that yes! lift of happiness. If none of the slips bring it to you, then keep looking for more patterns until you have enough to do the process again!