My quilts are serendipity to the recipients. They don't ever know I am making them one or when they will receive it. I frequently start out making a quilt and it "talks" to tell me where it wants to go. I have relatives who don't give me the time of day who have received a quilt and have oohhed and ahhhed over it. I also have quilts I have made for a particular person that have gone to community quilts because I know they won't appreciate it.