I have made quilts for most of the girls in my family. I have told them that they are meant to be snuggled. I tell them to use them until they fall apart. Or, if they don't like them anymore, give them back or donate. They are made to the taste of the recipient, and I know that taste can change.
The quilts that I make for 'no one in particular', are much more enjoyable to make. I can do what ever I want, and not worry if anyone will like it.