Great posts! Mom recently called us kids (6) and asked to come spend a week with each of us. (She has her own mobile home and is very independent) I explained there is one bed and that's for me and DH. Yes I have 3 bedrooms but the master is my quilting cave and the smallest bedroom has the freezer and a very large treadmill. She actually asked me why I couldn't get rid of the freezer and treadmill and set up a bedroom. We kids realized she was shopping around for a new place to live. I told her I'd help look for a great little retirement apartment for her. When my son comes I pay for a hotel room. Recently I have been telling my DH we need to get an air mattress to use for emergencies but they'd have to sleep in the walk in closet!