I had a friend I played scrabble with when I lived in the same town as her in the 80's. By the nineties I was into quilting and living elsewhere. I connected with her when I came to her town for some job training and we were going to have dinner together. She said to me, "oh, I have a friend who wants to learn to quilt, so I said we'd stop by before dinner and you'd teach her". I asked if she needed help hand quilting a project or what. And my friend replied that the woman hadn't done anything yet and I could teach her. I said not in the time between getting out of training for the day and going to dinner.