Things were really different back in the 50's, we stayed home and the men paid the bills and bought the groceries and everything else, not like in the movies where everything was wine and roses, Today,women stay for various reasons not always good but we stayed,and some still stay for reasons we do not talk about, If you have never been there you would not understand, I am married to a wonderful husband after living 53 years with a verbal abusive man who died at age 70 from cancer so I have been there , done that, and I understand you ladies,My friends all thought my first husband was great , little did they know :?