I don't know about you girls, but ... Since I am older it is getting harder and harder to find a great friend who you can share interests with and tell all of your secrets to, have a good laugh and just rely on. If your friendship is a good one, why not give her something nice to snuggle with? I have never gifted a quilt that I had giver's remorse about. But, there were a couple I thought about that haunt me that I didn't. And now it is too late to give any sweet comfort.